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My Problems with “Just Have More Sex”
If you’ve dealt with betrayal trauma caused by infidelity of any sort in your marriage, you may have felt like you have to keep having sex to keep your spouse faithful. Well-known pastors or even well-meaning people in your life may have even said so. Maybe you’ve even told yourself that. You might have heard…
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Dear Betrayed Spouse: an Open Letter
Dear Betrayed spouse, I am so sorry. What you’ve been through is absolutely horrible. You’ve been wronged on the deepest level possible. You didn’t ask for it. You don’t deserve it. It’s not your fault. But it has torn your life apart nonetheless. It’s such a shitty feeling, being cheated on. And even that doesn’t…